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‘I Found My 2nd Home in Korea’: The Space Arab Women Have Run for 6 Years

Questions of a Nonprofit Human Rights Organization Activist: The Things ‘Wahha’ Can’t Do

 

By Park Jung-hyung

Published August 6, 2024

Translated by Marilyn Hook

The Korea Migrant Human Rights Center, where I work, met Arab refugee women in our region (Incheon) in 2018 in the process of opening a shelter called Wahha that [like its name, the Arabic word for “oasis”] is meant to be an oasis for Arab/refugee women. Since we had already discussed the opening plans with the women who were helping with interpretation for Arab people in our region, Wahha’s opening ceremony was met with much anticipation and a warm reception from Arab women.

 

Learning how to make Lebanese food, one of Wahha’s “Dreamer” activities. Dreamer activities involve gathering to learn things that are useful to our lives. We decide what to learn at Wahha’s regular meetings. The name “Dreamer” was also decided at such a meeting. (Photo: Korea Migrant Human Rights Center)

In fact, the opening ceremony of Wahha actually felt like our center was the one being welcomed, since many so many local Arab women happily joined in preparing food and celebrating with us. 

 

Refugee women want to find work, but the reality is∙∙∙

 

Since then, the history of Wahha has to some extent been a series of unfortunate disappointments that we should be sorry for. It was perhaps natural that the needs and demands that were accumulating among the refugee women in the area flooded into the center that was supposedly created to help them. However, as a small non-profit organization, it has been really difficult for our group and its activists—who had to use almost all our resources and capabilities just in creating the space—to meet those needs.

 

And I, one of the activists, didn't know what kind of people the Arab women I met would be, and I think I had some prejudices. I thought they would be satisfied with a facility that was a comfortable space within Korean society for them, where they could do small activities and build strength with a small number of people in the community, so there have been times when it was difficult to deal with the new people, new problems, and requests that seem to pour in every day. In the end, I think there have been more instances of us telling the women of Wahha what they shouldn't do than telling them what they could do.

 

For example, many women want to find a job. The job centers run by the national government or local governments do not provide job training or information to immigrants with refugee visas, except for a very small number of recognized refugees. This is despite the fact that refugee applicants and people on humanitarian stay permits can legally work if they submit their work contract and other documents to the immigration office and receive its permission.

 

Since the government does not play an active role in connecting them with jobs, many employers do not hire them because they think their visas do not allow them to work. There have even been people who worked in simple labor jobs that would be permitted by the immigration office who were fined over 2 million won for doing so without permission.

 

However, our center has also had to tell these women that we could not find them jobs. Job placement is work that requires a lot of effort and responsibility, and it was beyond our capabilities. In addition, the women want jobs that they could do while raising their children, but the simple labor that can be done on a refugee visa requires long working hours. In the end, all we have been able to do is file a request with Incheon’s Human Rights Commission that the city help find jobs for refugees, and as of now, this request has not been fulfilled.

 

The Lebanese food from the “Making Lebanese Food” Dreamer activity that Wahha’s Arab women did together. The tuition and material costs were covered by donations from the Good Samaritan House, a shelter for immigrants and refugees run by nuns, and the activity will take place this year as well. (Photo: Korea Migrant Human Rights Center)

A Yemeni woman said that because she has hairdressing skills, she wanted to cut and style hair at Wahha’s facility to make money and pass the time. In Arab Muslim culture, there are separate hair salons for women and men, and only women use women’s hair salons. Since Korean hair salons are also used by men, Arab women have difficulty taking off their hijab to get their hair cut.

 

We knew about that situation, but at the time, our space was a small house, and there were a lot of children coming and going, so we had to tell the Yemeni woman that she couldn't cut and dye hair there. She then wanted to get a hairdressing job outside the center, but hairdresser is a professional occupation in Korea, which means it's hard to get a work permit for and it requires training that costs money. The woman is still, today, not able to do the job she wants.

 

Support available from small nonprofits is insufficient for the desperate needs

 

The problem of how to make a living has been one that many people experience. We have thought about how we could solve our problems as a community. We thought of making Aleppo soap, a famous Syrian soap made with laurel leaf oil, to earn pocket money for the women, and all the facility’s members agreed it was a good idea. However, right around that time, the law changed to permit only licensed manufacturing facilities to manufacture and sell soap, so we had to give up after only a few classes on soapmaking.

 

The attitude of the women who have to prepare for their future in Korea is serious. Rather than learning something as a hobby, they hope that it will actually help with solving their current problems and improving their future lives. They have a seriousness and desperation that goes beyond the level of wanting pocket money, and we have sometimes felt burdened by that desperation.

 

An external foundation running a mental healing project once funded our organization to hold sessions on making aromatherapy oils. We thought it would be just a time for our members to gather, share their hardships, and heal, but they always demanded more. The women did not just want to just make nice-smelling oils and instead asked for detailed information that could be helpful at some point in the future, such as where to buy ingredients, bottles, and packaging boxes. This was a request that even the instructor we invited had never received before and did not expect.

 

The circumstances of the center have always made it difficult to handle refugee women’s serious concerns about the future. Our organization has limited resources and has to apply for [mainly financial] support from external bodies in order to carry out activities. However, we cannot guarantee that our applications will be successful every time, and it is difficult to find an organization that will let you submit an application for the same project multiple times.

 

What Wahha’s members want is to learn practical skills that will help them prepare for the future under their circumstances, such as sewing, hairdressing, and using computers, but mastering such skills requires equipment and cannot be achieved through short-term study. It has also  been difficult to find organizations that would pay for these activities, and when our applications are rejected, I end up blaming myself for not writing them better.

 

In this way, we have been going through a process of learning what works and what doesn't, and it's still ongoing. It has been very stressful having to say no so much, but the women’s disappointment and resignation upon being told no must be huge as well. If there's anything I have learned, it's that explaining why something won’t work takes a lot of time but is also an essential step toward understanding each other's situations and moving forward together.

Learning how to knit, one of the Dreamer activities the Wahha women participated in.
(Photo: Korea Migrant Human Rights Center)

 

‘Second home’ created by women from many countries learning from, relying on, and working with each other


 It has already been six years since Wahha opened. In that time, we have moved once and gone through the brutal COVID pandemic, and some of the original members have stayed, some have left, and new people have gathered. The space that was created primarily for refugee women has also become a space for women who are accompanying family members staying in the area for business and women studying in Korea on student visas. We still have regrets and disappointments about things that are needed but cannot be done, and we discuss and move forward with what we can do within our limitations.

 

Although their statuses do not allow these women to invite their parents, siblings, or sisters to Korea, they take time to learn how to cook from women who are recognized as chefs in this community. Although they have difficulty receiving medical treatment due to language barriers or the cost of care, female doctors in our community provide them with health-related advice and give lectures. The empty feeling caused by not being able to fully practice Islamic religious life is also filled through lectures by religious studies majors in the community.

 

Above all, Wahha is becoming a space where women of various nationalities who would not otherwise meet in their home countries can meet and learn and share each other’s cultures. Our space is not one that can be created by just a few people but one that is filled by the discussions of the women who fill it—rather, it is filled by being led by those discussions and demands. If something is achieved at Wahha, it is the product of the efforts, understanding, and cooperation of the women here.

 

As a guardian of the space, I am grateful that Wahha can accompany the women on their journey, and that some of them call Wahha their “second home.” However, Wahha’s limitations are also clear. The institutional barriers that women constantly encounter in Korea in trying to live a life where they can fully demonstrate their abilities are ultimately things that Korean society must work with them to resolve.

 

Korean society sees immigrants only as a means to support Korean society, assigns them limited roles, and punishes those who step past those limits. Also, Arab women are seen as mere victims of a patriarchal society and not seriously considered as beings who are creating their own futures.

 

Immigrants are not interchangeable machine parts but people. They dream of a future where everyone has their own unique dignity and is treated with respect. It is impossible to confine immigrants to limited existences. When we eliminate the boundaries of discrimination so that immigrants can give free rein to their capabilities, Korean society will become more diverse and abundant.

 

About the Author: Park Jeong-hyeong is the director of the Korea Migrant Human Rights Center. Currently, she plays a major role as a facilitator of Wahha, which was created by the center for engaging in activism with Arab women. While counseling immigrants on their difficulties and working with immigrants, she began to ponder the questions that their existence poses to Korean society. In an attempt to find her own answers, she is also pursuing a graduate degree in cultural anthropology.

 

*Original article: https://www.ildaro.com/9972

 


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